Friday, 17 July 2009

Food that young kids can cook

It is apt that I'm blogging this while watching Master Chef.

Back in the "olden days", when I left home for the first time, I didn't know how to cook...at all. The first night on my own, after I shoo'ed my parents out (assuring them all the while that I would be fine), I remember walking into the kitchen and thinking "what now?".

I ended up calling a friend asking him "how do you boil an egg?".

Fifteen years later, I am proud to say that I can cook passably well. Not as well as those people in Master Chef but enough to please my family and friends (usually). :P

One thing I've always wanted to do is to involve my children into household activities - including cooking. Tonight, my children, aged 4 and 6, cooked our dinner.

I have found that our journey with cooking together has been very haphazard. There were times when the mess in the kitchen created too much stress for me afterwards to not attempt to cook together again for a long while.

However, in keeping with my parenting philosophy, I am glad that I persisted and we've eventually developed shared understandings and a "rhythmn" in the kitchen.

My children do best with simple, "set and forget" dishes. They also have a definite limit in terms of how long they are able to concentrate in the kitchen. My daughter can stay in the kitchen for about 20 mins. My son about 10 mins. This means that foods that don't require too much preparation are the ones they love to do. Less preparation also means less ingredients. Which is good because they have to be able to remember all the ingredients as they can not read very well. :P

While the kids wash their hands prior, I have found it useful to place wet face washers near them when they're cooking. They use these face washers to wipe their hands during preparation. I don't know if its just my kids but if they get a bit of uncooked mixture/ingredient stuck on their hands, they don't like it. So a wet face washer is handy to wipe up messes.

Tonight, we had Honey Soy Chicken Drumsticks, with rice and steamed veges.

Honey Soy Chicken

In an oven proof dish, mix together honey, soy sauce and 1 clove of crushed garlic.



The way my children remember it is: 1 tablespoon of honey and 1 tablespoon of soy sauce for every drumstick of chicken. Crushed garlic is last and is stirred in.

Heat oven at 200 degrees. The kids prefer to place the dial at an actual number instead of a line.

Place dish inside oven and set kitchen timer for 40 mins (again at an actual number instead of a line).

Walk away until timer goes off. Mum is the one who takes it out of the oven.

Rice

In a large microwave proof dish, add 3 cups of rice and 3 cups of water. (note that my daughter is the one who cooks this - not because my son can not remember it but the weight of the water and rice is too heavy for him at the moment)

Place in microwave and cook on high for 20 mins.

Walk away. Mum takes it out of the microwave.

Steamed Brocolli

In the steamer pot, place 1 little cup (aka the 1/4 cup) of water then brocolli. Turn on the right stove top and place dial on the biggest flame

Set mum's mobile phone to 10 mins.

Walk away. Mum will take it out of the steamer.

Tonight's result:



And yes, both my children know how to operate the oven, stove, microwave and timer. :) Both of them have learned that these are not toys but are essential tools. They do not touch them any other time except when cooking or reheating.

Do your children cook? What do they cook?

12 comments:

Christephi said...

Wow, I love it that you let your kid cook! I have known so many people (in college!) who have absolutely no idea how to cook, clean, do laundry, or anything because their parents never let them participate when they were growing up. I also don't know many people brave enough to let a 4 and 6 year old cook dinner. When they are 10 and 12 and you can genuinely trust them to prepare a meal by themselves -- and YOU get a night off! -- you're going to be very glad! Oh, and my 2 year old is the same way...when she's "helping" me in the kitchen and gets something on her hands...she wants to wash it off right away!

Tree Hugging Mama said...

Did I miss the Chicken? Do you mix the honey soy sauce and then add the chicken and then the garlic?
I like the idea of a wet wash cloth in because every time my kids get somethign on them they use their pants or mine to wipe it off. My kids have always been in the kitchen to "help" me and there have been times I have been so stressed I have shooed them out, only to explain later that I was really stressed and afraid because of my stress that I was not paying enough attention.
They like being in the kitchen with me, but I am not ready for them to cook alone, I have issues.
I know my 11 yo uses a kitchen knife at her grandma's but I just can't watch her do it at my house and I cut with the worst habbits so I have a hard time teaching them the correct way to do something. I also have issues with the stove - I worry that they will get burned.
I know my issues and I have to get over them, but I applaud you for letting your 4 and 6 year olds make dinner.
When I moved out I didn't know how to cook, I was the baby and someone always cooked for me. I could make PBJ and Grilled Cheese.
I decided I wanted to make steak so I called my sister (cause I wasn't going to admit to my mom, I couldn't do it) and asked her how to do it.
She told me that I put the steak on the broiler rack and turned it when browned. So I did (it was frozen so naturally it didn't cook all the way through). Then we did mashed potatoes. She told me to boil the potatoes until soft - do you know how long it takes to boil whole potatoes, and how hard it is peel a cooked potato?

And they let me make Thanksgiving dinner that year. I read the directions on the Turkey - wash and dry bird. Well I washed with Dawn and no one got sick, but I am now an excellent cook and baker, but will never live down, burning water, washing the turkey and serving my husband frozen steak.

jenniepowell said...

Funnily enough, my eldest cooked for us tonight - he's eight years old. He did baked fish with boiled new potatoes and a salad, and we all enjoyed it so much and gave him so much praise that apparently he's cooking again tomorrow and Monday! Fabulous!

My husband left home without much idea of how to cook. I don't think we do our kids any favours by coddling them and doing everything for them.

Eilleen said...

Thanks all for your comments :)

Tree Hugging Mama - your stories made me laugh! Thank you so much!

I have to say, me not knowing how to cook was very much the result of not only cultural factors, but also because I was a stubborn teen with no interest in cooking. And boy, did I pay for it now!!

I can only hope my kids retain an interest in it!!

Eilleen said...

oh forgot to type it in - yes, the Honey Soy chicken you mix the honey and soy first, add chicken then add garlic and stir. :)

Paola said...

Hi Eilleen, I posted on a similar topic this week, after my children made meatballs for the first time. Learning to cook is the most important life skill any kid can learn. Kudos to you for teaching you children now - it will pay dividends in the future..

Bec said...

I just posted about this very topic!! Enchiladas are a good one for my guys. I brown the mince and then they assemble them. Piklets have also been good here to get some stove experience. Izaak *loves* spaghetti so he's learnt how to boil the pasta now as well. He loves making muffins & melt & mix cakes. He's turning 8 in September and has decided to have a chefs party ;-)

For me I just love seeing him in the kitchen and knowing that I'm raising a man who will be able to take care of himself and eat more than what comes out of a drive through or a frozen meal. He's 7 and does his own washing now about 50% of the time. I think it's so important to teach 'life' skills as much as 'academic' skills and you are doing a fabulous job!!

Melinda said...

It's funny sometimes, when we look back at our experiences and change them for our kids. By the time my sister and I were twelve we were capable of cooking a full meal for our family of seven. Yet my younger sister (five years younger) left home not knowing how to boil an egg. She's a good cook now, but like you she learnt the hard way.

My 11yo is just learning to cook. We made a cake together yesterday, me supervising and her doing the cooking. It should have been in the oven longer, but tasted good all the same!

And I think you've just pointed out a problem I have with her - she doesn't have the concentration span to work in the kitchen for an hour at a time. I hadn't made the connection, so thanks! :-)

Eilleen said...

Thanks again all! Its great that so many of our kids are cooking!

Bec - Izaak is just amazing. How cool that he wants a chef party! (please blog about how this went I'd love to see it)

You know reading what you guys have had for dinner is making me hungry again!

Incidentally, my daughter cooked the main meal tonight. She made fried chicken but in the oven (ie garlic, salt and oil in an oven proof dish, place chicken on top and turn over a few times so it has garlic and salt on it - place in oven (again at 200 degrees) for 60 mins.

Bel said...

I also left home with few cooking skills. My children cook cakes, meals, cut up salads and fruit, etc. It's a blessing to have such great helpers!

Jenna said...

How about mini pizza's? I don't have children but often babysit my nieces and make dinner with them.

I get a bowl and mix some basic ingredients for a pizza base then they can roll it or pat it into whatever shape they want, then choose their own toppings.

Bang it in the oven and then get it out half an hour later.

I find it's low stress but gets them helping. And they're always more keen to eat the things they've made rather than something I've made. :)

Eilleen said...

Bel - yes it is great to have helpers! I am finding myself less and less stressed because I don't have to do it all anymore.

Jenn - of course! what a great idea! Thank you!!

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